Dark Side of Social Media, The Indian Household and Its Echo on Social Media
Dark side of social media have we talked about it?
Social media is often a reflection of our deepest, darkest realities. A recent instance involving the children of celebrities highlighted the pervasive toxicity online, echoing behaviors seen in Indian households.
In India, we are accustomed to the toxicity of social media. However, sometimes, it strikes a chord. A tweet about Ziva Singh Dhoni, the 9-year-old daughter of cricket legend MS Dhoni will make you question many things. The tweet read, “Reason why girls don’t want to marry a Bihari guy,” targeting not just the child but also her father. This isn’t an anomaly. Celebrities and their families are regularly scrutinized online. Yet, what’s truly alarming is the comfort with which people dissect the appearances of minors.
The Culture of Judgement
One might argue that these are celebrity children, hence the scrutiny. However, this judgmental attitude isn’t confined to celebrities; it permeates our daily lives. Comments like “She’s too skinny or fat,” “He’s too feminine,” and “He’s too dark” are common in Indian households. Blaming the Internet alone is simplistic. Social media magnifies the existing societal noise, acting as an extension of our reality.
In Indian families, judgments based on appearances and behaviors this culture of criticism starts early, impacting self-esteem and mental health. The societal obsession with a flawed model of perfectionism means that anyone deviating from this ideal is subject to harsh judgment. Celebrities, under constant surveillance, face amplified scrutiny, but ordinary individuals aren’t spared either.
Impact on Individuals
The impact of such judgments is profound. Children who grow up in environments where they are constantly judged may carry these scars into adulthood. This can affect their self-worth, relationships, and overall mental health. The trauma from past judgments can shape an individual’s future, leading to a cycle of self-criticism and anxiety. Girls growing up under constant scrutiny may internalize these judgments, leading to anxiety and depression.
They often make life decisions based on societal expectations rather than personal desires, perpetuating a cycle of self-doubt. The pressure to conform to unrealistic standards can cause severe mental health issues. Girls might struggle with body dysmorphia, eating disorders, and low self-worth. The lack of supportive dialogue at home exacerbates these issues, making it difficult for them to seek help.
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Breaking the Cycle
To break this cycle, we must start within our households. Encouraging positive reinforcement over criticism, promoting acceptance of diverse appearances and behaviors, and teaching empathy can help. On social media, platforms must enforce stricter regulations against bullying and provide resources for mental health support.
Conclusion
The incident involving Ziva Singh Dhoni is a stark reminder of the pervasive toxicity both online and offline. It underscores the need for a cultural shift towards acceptance and kindness. By addressing the root causes of this behavior in our homes, we can hope to create a more compassionate society, both online and offline.
Even if we talk about the judgments girls face at home can have far-reaching effects on their mental health and life choices. By fostering a more compassionate and understanding environment, we can help them develop the confidence and resilience needed to pursue their dreams without fear of judgment. This shift requires a collective effort to redefine societal norms and promote a culture of acceptance and support.
